Some singles out there must be tired of having to deal with guys who never seriously deal with them. Just stop for a moment then leave. Repeating the same cycle over and over again is very tiring, you know.
Therefore you must know, what are the characteristics of a boy who is just playing with you PDKT. About like what, huh? Instead of getting curious to find out together, let's go.
1. Often comes and goes
Today you chatted at length lewatchat, the next day he disappeared. Yesterday you just met, uh the next day he didn't appear again. The habit of coming and going just like that indicates that the guy you are close to is not really serious about PDKT with you, you know.
If he was serious he wouldn't just come and go. He will definitely be there though, maybe replying to your messages in a slightly longer period of time. Replying to messages for a long time but can still be tolerated could be because he is busy with his activities, right? In contrast, he did not reply at all until days or months later.
2. Often say if you are different than others
Whether compliment you in attitude, character, appearance or whatever. You need to be alert if the guy has started to take out his magic moves in which he says that you are different from the others. You are different from the girls he has met before.
This one thing is one of the tricks they do to provoke you emotionally. If you are hooked it will be easier for the guy to trick you into being played with.
3. Don't want to give certainty
It's been close for months but, somehow he shows absolutely no sign of being serious towards you. You don't have to be grandiose to propose or get married, there are no signs of going out at all.
If you have this, you can be sure that he is just playing with your feelings. If he's serious, there's definitely no need to wait a long time, he'll definitely confirm right away, really.
4. Just focus on himself
Whether he is known for his narcissistic personality or not, if you find your crush constantly focusing on himself in every conversation you can be sure, he is not serious at all with you.
Just check it, when you start telling stories about yourself or your life, just see how it responds. If he ignores or even diverts to another topic of conversation, just throw it away, this type of guy. He's just for fun, you know.
5. Close to many other girls
When you are in love or even just close to a man, a girl's detective ability cannot be denied. Especially if you discover the fact that the guy who is your crush, has lots of close girl friends.
If you only have a lot of close friends of the opposite sex, you might not be that different either. However, after examining his closeness to that of many other girls. Yes, there is no need to continue with the existing PDKT, instead you will only feel hurt.
After knowing the characteristics of a guy who is just playing PDKT with you, immediately identify whether there are signs on your crush. He's not serious, you don't need to take your feelings too far.